Teaching Men To Suck Cock

As a Mistress, I get asked a lot of things every day. Teaching men to suck cock is one of them. They aren’t all what you’d expect, I’m sure. Of course, there are plenty of men wanting my help to get off.  But there are just as many who need instructions of some sort, from the very detailed, to some standard basic information. You might say that our roles as Mistresses here at LDW are not just about control.  They are also about instruction. We don’t order you to do things.  We guide you into seeing that you should do them.  Or we teach you how to do them.

Admit it.  If you are a sissy, you’ve gone to your Mistress and asked how to pick out the perfect panties or lipstick.  Or, for those of you who need to have your cocks locked up, you know that you love to catch up with your Mistress and spend time with her discussing just how to choose the perfect chastity device or how to put it on, how long you should wear it, etc. There are all kinds of questions that can go along with chastity. However, I have to say that I get asked one question far and above all the other questions. I get asked about sucking cock. You want to know how to do it!

The Basics Of Getting Ready To Suck

So, I’m going to tell you some of the things I tell my guys who call up and ask me to teach them to suck cock. Number one rule of cock sucking: practice practice practice. You don’t want to start out on a real cock when you have no idea what you are doing. Think how much you could seriously disappoint someone if you showed up to start sucking cock, only to have them realize that you have no clue what you are doing. That’s nothing you want to do, ever! I’m sure you can see why that would be a problem.

Next, face the facts. Sucking cock requires you to do a couple of things.  One is deep throat.  This is where the practicing comes in. No one (at least not anyone you want to be around) is excited by you gagging and choking.  So learn to relax those throat muscles. A longer and thicker strap-on than you will actually need is a good way to practice this. And number two is swallow. That’s right! You like it and he expects you to do it! Luckily for you, you can practice with your own. But do know there is always more than you expect there to be.  And it is certainly thicker than you expect. I recommend having a carbonated drink on hand to wash it all down afterwards. Again, no gagging.

Finally Sucking Cock the Right Way

Now, once you have practiced and feel you are ready to start your adventure in sucking cock, you need to be ready to take control of the situation, to a point. Remember, you are there to please him, not the other way around. It’s not up to him to make it easy on you or make you comfortable, so I recommend preparing to be on your knees in front of him. It’s the position he is most likely to enjoy.  And while it does make things a little harder on you, it will excite him.

Once you are on your knees, you can take comfort in his excitement, as a sign that you may not have to be down there too long. Of course, you will have to keep sucking and licking and playing with his balls (never forget the balls) until he is ready to release. This can be a long time or a short time depending on a number of factors, not the least of which is your skill in exciting him.  And how good you really are at sucking cock.

Be aware, though, that he will not be still and let you take your time like a strap on or dildo.  He’s going to get excited, so be prepared to go deep right from the beginning and to get into a rhythm with him so you aren’t doing that rude gagging thing I mentioned earlier. This should be an erotic experience for you both and will be if done correctly. Remember, no one gets everything right the first time. But, if you take some guidance from your Suck Patrol Mistress, who is skilled in teaching men to suck cock, at least you will not disappoint!