Does A Good Cocksucker Have To Deep Throat?

by Ms. Rachel of www.sensual-domme.com

So, you want to suck cock, but not sure you can deep throat? Or, maybe you’re already a prolific cocksucker, though you have never taken a cock all the way down to the balls.  You say to yourself, so much of the porn you see these days involves deep throating. You see it talked about in cock whore circles online. Maybe your Mistress has even mentioned it in sessions.  It makes you wonder, do you have to deep throat in order to be a good cocksucker?

My Answer To That Question Is: It Depends.  On What Does It Depend?

First of all, and most importantly, what does the owner of that big cock enjoy most?  Even if a cock slut doesn’t consider him or herself submissive, s/he still wants to please.  Though I’ve heard of very few dominant studs or cuckold bulls who don’t enjoy the snug wetness and kinky visual involved in having his whole hard dong oozed down into the throat pussy of his cocksucking whore, I have certainly heard of a few who are indifferent to it. For these, it simply doesn’t add much to their experience.  Maybe this is because they prefer the emphasis to be on the head of the cock, and on suction, rather than the feeling of complete penetration.

In my experience, however, dominant stud cocks (and most cuckold bulls) are concerned about more than sensation.  What the dominant stud cock desires, at least as much as pleasure, is a show of submission, of complete surrender.  He intends to visit humiliation on the beta male or cocksucking sissy as much as to receive pleasure from him or her.  That often includes cramming his whole cock down their throat to the balls.

You Might Be Wondering,

What If the Inspiration In Your Cocksucking Adventures Is To

please your Mistress?

Will she be more concerned with how well you give pleasure? Or how deeply you submit?  If your Mistress and I are anything alike, it will likely be a combination of the two.  If you are sucking cock for Mistress, she will probably train and encourage you before you encounter your first real cock. Mistress will make clear what she expects of you, and likely instruct you to practice with a dildo.  If you are lucky enough to be owned by a dominant woman in the flesh, she may train you by having you suck her strap-on.  This will give you a more visceral idea of the style she likes. She’ll literally show you, as well as tell you.

Perhaps you well know that your Mistress, or your current stud cock, requires that you deep throat, but you are resistant to the idea, because gagging worries you or makes you uncomfortable.  First, it’s not a given that you will gag, at least not after a while.  Practice makes perfect.  But if you are a submissive cocksucker, ask yourself if it’s really appropriate for you to put your own comfort over the potential pleasure of your stud or your Mistress?  Besides, you won’t smother.  Remember your nose?  It might be busy blowing spit bubbles during a vigorous throat fucking, but you can still breathe through it!

In short, depending on who you’re trying to please, and their tastes, the answer to the topic question is: not necessarily.  However, if you’re among those whose stud cock, or Mistress, encourages or even requires you to open up your throat pussy, the answer is: yes. And you can fulfill this expectation more simply than you might think. With practice, commitment, resistance to panic, and a lot of spit.

Happy Cocksucking!  *wink*