So you have cocksucking fantasies, do you? If these are new desires for you–or even if they’re older ones you haven’t quite come to terms with yet–you might find yourself questioning your sexuality. You may be wondering if sucking cock makes you gay.

Well, I’m here to help you set all your worries aside. No, my dear, cocksucking, whether fantasizing about it or actually doing it, does not make you gay at all.

Maybe You’re Just Cock Curious

Now, some people might tell you that it doesn’t mean you’re gay, but it does mean you’re bi. I’m not even going to go that far, personally. I think it just means you’re curious about cock. It is entirely possible to be attracted to dicks and not attracted to the men attached to them. There are guys whose entire cocksucking fantasies revolve around trans women, for example. But even if you are attracted to the male form, it still doesn’t make you bi or gay. You could be one of those things. But it’s not necessarily true.

This sort of thing is far more common than most people would believe. The cock itself is the object of fascination, not the man it belongs to. Maybe you’d never kiss or do anything like that with another man, but the thought of cocksucking makes you insanely horny. I would say if that be the case, you don’t really qualify as being gay or bi.

Sexual And Romantic Attraction

Furthermore, sexual attraction and romantic attraction are not the same thing. You may be sexually attracted to other men, but not desire a romantic relationship with them. You can decide for yourself whether that means the bisexual label fits you or not. But I say you don’t necessarily have to take on that label if you don’t want to. There are plenty of alternative labels. FetLife would call such people “heteroflexible,” for example.

But you might decide that you’re not even bicurious or heteroflexible or anything else. Maybe you’re just a straight man who likes cocksucking. There’s nothing wrong with that, either! And if you don’t feel like you fit under the queer umbrella, that’s a fair assessment, I’d say.

Think About Your Personal Cocksucking Desires

So that’s my assignment for you today. I want you to think about your own personal cocksucking desires. Don’t think about what you believe you “should” do or be. Just think about what is and try to make your peace with it.

Consider the difference between sexual and romantic attraction. Are you sexually attracted to men? Are you romantically attracted to them? Are you only sexually and romantically attracted to men? Or are you sexually and romantically attracted to women or other genders as well? It’s a lot to think about, for sure, but I think if you ponder on it for a while, you’ll achieve some clarity.

If you decide that you are bisexual or gay, congratulations for learning something new about yourself! If not, know that there is absolutely nothing wrong for desiring cock. It’s a perfectly valid way to express your sexuality, and it does not necessarily make you bi or gay.

Let me know what you decide on, too. I would love to hear the conclusions you’ve come to and how you reached them. But more than anything, I just want to help you explore your cocksucking desires. So why not give me, Ms. Kay Marie, a call, and let’s delve into them together? I think you’ll be very glad you did, once you give it a try!

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