Ms. Lauren’s Cumeaters Anonymous

Welcome to Cum Eaters Anonymous

Welcome to your first meeting of Cum eaters Anonymous. If you’re new to the program, relax, it’s ok. We’re all here for the same reason… well you boys are, anyway. You’re here because you have an insatiable desire to eat your own cum. Every man you see here in this room eats his cum, wants to eat his cum or has eaten his cum in the past. I’m Ms Lauren and I’m here to help. Repression is harmful while indulgence in moderation leaves you satisfied and excited about life. When you come to terms with your cum eating in a joyful way, you’ll be well on your way to living the life you dream of without fear or shame. That’s what we’re all about here at Cum eater’s Anonymous, creating sexually healthy habits that last a lifetime!

The Psychology Behind Cum Indulgence

Yes, I know eating your own cum seems like a dirty thing to do when you’re on the outside looking in. But you have to understand that most men have eaten cum whether they’ll admit it or not. They’ve had to clean up the evidence quickly or wanted a little taboo boost to their masturbation pleasure or been with a lover who wanted him to go south after he’d made love with her… you get the drift, right? You’re not breaking new ground and you’re not completely abnormal. It’s a perfectly natural thing to do, though some unenlightened people would have you think it isn’t. There’s nothing nasty about it, well, unless feeling nasty is what turns you on. It’s all about perspective. So in that vein, I’ll be helping you understand your motivations, teaching you to indulge yourself in moderation and of course helping you gain a personal perspective that’s uplifting and empowering. So sit back, relax… everyone will have the opportunity to share your cum eating fantasies or erotic confessions after I outline the program.

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The 12 Steps to Cum eating Empowerment

You might want to keep these handy for when you’re feeling ashamed of yourself, like I said, I’m all about empowering cumeaters. Don’t be afraid, I promise it isn’t so tough once you get the basics down. Trust me, by the end of the meeting, you’ll feel more comfortable and in control of your cum eating desires. I’ll be lining the steps out in order for easy future reference. You can take notes if you like.

1. Accept that while you aren’t powerless in your desire to eat cum, the feeling is occasionally overwhelming. In order to avoid inappropriate situations remember that there is a time and a place for everything. You can’t control what you’re feeling, but you can control when and where you choose to masturbate and eat your cum. Men who eat their own cum compulsively often compulsively masturbate as well. Controlling your indulgences to appropriate times and venues puts you in control, not your cock.
2. You need a cum eating coach to call upon when you feel the need to indulge inappropriately. You must give yourself over to her wisdom and power, your cum eating mistress, and accept what she teaches you and consult with her if you feel you can’t control yourself. As a reminder of her borrowed self control, you should condition yourself to see something like a rubber band around your wrist as a representation of her will. A reminder will get you in the habit of thinking “What would Ms Lauren have me do?” and stick to the things you’ve learned as opposed to mindless, dangerous indulgence.
3. Make a decision to turn yourself over completely to your cum eating coach and never question her authority. She has much more experience and will make it her mission to dig deep within your sexual psyche. If she asks questions of you, you’ll answer honestly and without omission. She needs to know you inside and out to determine the best way for you to explore your fascination with cum eating. Understanding the whys behind your cum eating compulsion makes the hows much more satisfying. More satisfaction in the act itself will lead to less uncontrolled indulgence.
4. Make an honest assessment of what makes you tick. Leave nothing out, not even the embarrassing parts. You must be fearless in your mental explorations, opening every door in your sexual psyche to reveal subconscious desires and motivations. What might seem small and insignificant to you might show your cum eating coach a truth you’ve missed or ignored. Don’t be afraid, just do it. You have support now and you aren’t going this alone. And of course, be prepared to share those revelations with your cum eating mistress.
5. Don’t label yourself a cum eater. You’re only a cum eater when you have cum in your mouth, at that moment. Just thinking about it doesn’t make you a cum sucker. You can’t use the label as an excuse to put yourself down or avoid and procrastinate because you see yourself as a cum sucker, jizz junkie, spooge monkey, cum eater . While humiliation and the use of degrading names in the midst of a coached cum eating session is completely appropriate and even desired you shouldn’t take it with you when you’ve mopped up. When the taste of cum leaves your mouth you will not feel shame for cum eating. The moment is gone and that part of you is small and insignificant compared to the totality of your existence.
6. Admit you’re a good person and cum eating doesn’t make you “bad”. Good and bad are relative terms depending on the question. An activity that hurts no one cannot inherently be bad. And since it’s your own cum your eating, no one is harmed. You’ve stolen nothing, you’ve murdered no one and despite what some religions say, masturbation isn’t a mortal sin. You must develop the mindset that it’s your body, your cum and it’s chock full of nutrients. If you’re spilling your seed anyway, the bigger sin would be letting that delicious protein to go waste.
7. Ask your cum eating coach to control not only your cum eating, but your orgasm itself. Tease and denial have negative connotations for some due to frustrated experiences in the backseat of cars. The fear of an extreme cock tease who’ll leave you blue-balled is a serious fear for some men. You must take back that power and realize that orgasm control in the midst of a healthy relationship doesn’t mean no orgasms, it just means you won’t be wanking your poor cock to mindless orgasms anymore. You’re looking for quality, not quantity. In the hands of a skilled masturbatrix, you’ll learn to play your cock like a virtuoso. While edging is encouraged, controlling the when of your orgasm makes your load bigger, your orgasm stronger and the feeling will satisfy you more than a million meaningless spooges.
8. Make a list of all your unfulfilled desires so that when you’re masturbating with your cum eating mistress you have something that excites you tremendously while you’re stroking to your goal. Pick out situations that were exciting, but went wrong to get some closure. When you face down those fears while your lust runs high you gain the ability to take control of your sensuality. When you become comfortable with what could have been rather than was, you come closer to taking control of your cock, your cum eating and those habits you feel stifle you and hold you back when your cock isn’t in your hand.
9. Be more confident in the way you deal with others, even the ones who’ve humiliated or taunting you upon learning your secret. You have no reason to be ashamed. Those people have masturbated, they’ve tasted their cum at some point, there’s nothing you’ve done that they’ve not done or worse. Look every man and woman in the eye as an equal. You aren’t the only one who has indulged and no one should make you feel less because you’ve had the courage to come clean. Remember, you’re only a cum eater in the moment. No one has the right to judge you but you.
10. Never stop anaylzing yourself and your motivations. When something excites you, admit it, even it’s only to yourself. Don’t over think it or let it become an obsession. It’s a sexual fantasy, a momentary urge. Letting it cloud your mind leads to a dangerous circle of guilt, repression, denial and ultimately failure when you realize the desire won’t go away unless you face it… even if you’re only facing it in fantasy… especially if you’re only facing it in fantasy. Sexual fantasies are a very real part of you, of everyone. You are not alone and you have no reason to feel ashamed.
11. Share often with your cum eating coach. She’ll help guide you and shape you into a healthy, well adjusted individual who just happens to occasionally eat his own cum. When you’re sharing your sexual desires and holding nothing back, you’re giving yourself an outlet to express your innermost self. You must let go of fear and let your mistress guide you until you’re ready to control yourself fearlessly. Learning to love yourself without judgement is the goal of every man. A desire for cum eating should never force you to live in the shadows like a perverted pariah. When you share with your cum eating mistress you gain the confidence to face the world head on, without fear, guilt and shame.
12. As you gain in sexual control through both planned and spontaneous encounters with your cum eating coach, you’ll gain a sense of peace, serenity and enlightenment. This epiphany is simple:  You can’t control your sexual fantasies or desires, but you can control how you express them. When you moderate yourself so that each masturbation session leaves you exalted and fulfilled, there’s nothing to fear or run away from. In that moment yes, you are a cum eater, but it doesn’t define you. It’s merely yet another beautiful variation of the sexual gift we’ve been given as humans. Give yourself freely, love yourself, respect yourself and others. Your cum is a gift you give to yourself. Indulging in the taste and the texture and the sweet nutrition with care and consideration empowers you to be more than a cum eater. It empowers you to accept yourself and others for all the quirks and picadellos… as a human with a healthy, happy sex life that encompasses more than many could imagine.

Are You Ready for Your Own Cum eating Empowerment?

Now that I’ve lined out how Cum eaters Anonymous can help you, are you ready for the next step? I’d love to work with you, but to do that I need to know you. I know it’s difficult to imagine sharing something so intimate and private so it took real courage to come here tonight. Now I know that many of you feel uncomfortable sharing in such an open venue, that’s perfectly understandable. That’s why I’m always happy to offer private consultations for my sweet little cum eaters. If you’d like to get started down the path of cum eating empowerment, I’m here for you. All you have to do is pick up the phone and give me a call. Be ready to delve deep, cum eater. I’m relentless when it comes to getting inside your head. But remember, that’s what I’m here for, for you. The ball’s in your court now and I know we’ll be talking soon.

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