This month at LDW, We are shining a spotlight on body worship. Many of you would gladly worship any part of your Mistress’ body, wouldn’t you? What’s more, you would render Her any type of oral servitude in a state of bliss. Your Mistress’ pleasure, sexual and otherwise, likely consumes a good amount of your waking thoughts as a submissive, as well it should. That which pleases Her should please you.

And you should please it, as the case may be.

Your Mistress likely knows one or more Alpha males who have given Her a great deal of the aforementioned pleasure. Pleasure of a variety that you are unable to match and/or unworthy to attempt. Pleasure by way of their beautiful big cock.

You should regard such cocks with reverence, and yes, with gratitude.

Therefore, should your Mistress require that you display this reverence and gratitude overtly via oral servitude, a.k.a. cock sucking, you should do so with as much enthusiasm and care as you would show to or take with Mistress’ very own body.

I decided this month would be a perfect time to provide a comprehensive guide to submissive cock sucking. But this isn’t about some gloryhole visit where you suck what ever comes through the opening to satiate your lust for humiliation or please your sadistic Mistress.

This guide is geared toward oral servitude for the special men in Her life. Those with special cocks. Special because of their size and the nature of the man to whom they are attached. But most of all, special because they have the distinction of having been inside Mistress’ pussy. Not to mention, made Her cum many times that way.

Oral servitude cock sucking in such a way that honors the cock, and thus your Mistress, can be more involved than you think, which is why this guide will be presented in two parts.

So without further ado, let’s proceed with part one.

Oral Servitude for Mistress’ Bull or Boyfriend

The first step to properly servicing the superior cock of Mistress’ man is . . . to wait to be directed to do so!

One of the main components of oral servitude of which many of a submissive needs to be reminded is that it’s not about them. Just because enthusiasm is both warranted and expected, it doesn’t mean greed or harassment is appropriate.

I’m looking at you, sissy slut.

The submissive cock sucker should make themselves as unobtrusive as possible in the presence of Mistress and Master, as unobtrusive as a household appliance. If no one has plugged you in and flipped your switch, you simply sit or kneel silently in the corner or at the end of the bed or wherever you’ve been placed, until such time as they do.

The second step is to have your priorities straight. Many submissives have chores and duties to complete for Mistress unrelated to sexual acts. A sissy maid, for example. But as Master is an extension of Mistress, and His pleasure is an extension of Hers, you will drop what ever you are doing the moment He summons you to suck, whether Mistress is present or not.

Tips for the Submissive Cock Sucker

Now that you understand the initial mental and practical logistics, let’s talk about technique:

1.)  Greet the cock. Take what ever position you have been summoned to, whether kneeling, or laying on a surface with your head hanging over the edge. Then, unless otherwise directed by your Mistress (if present) or Her stud, acknowledge the cock and balls with affection and reverence. Nuzzle it with your cheeks. Massage and fondle. Hold it respectfully in your hand and slap it against your tongue. Kiss it gently all over.

2.) Start with just your tongue. That’s right, give the entire area a tongue bath. Don’t use the tip of your tongue unless it’s to tease the glans (that move is most effective when the cock is engorged and slippery with spit already). Use the entire flat part of your tongue for long, full licks. Swirl it back and forth across the balls, or up and down the entire shaft.

This also lays down a base of moisture so that the initial strokes into your mouth are moist and pleasant for the bull. This way, He doesn’t need to wait for your mouth to fill with saliva to get that optimal pussymouth feel.

More Tips for Cock Sucking Body Worship

3.) Follow his lead.  From first lick to ejaculation, your Master will offer cues, both verbal and non-verbal, indicating His preferences and needs. You owe it to your Mistress, and therefore Him, to note and respond to these.

For example, chances are, He will simply lay back and relax into your oral servitude. But if you are good at your craft, He is a particularly dominant top, or both, He is likely to issue verbal commands or direct and control your head with His hands. He may also thrust His hips, wrap His legs around your neck and shoulders, or move you into a different position.

4.) Offer eye contact. In My opinion, eye contact is an underutilized option in submissive oral servitude. Not all tops enjoy it, because it may make them feel required to acknowledge the service sucker when they’d rather you simply function as a human Fleshlight. But it’s a skill to develop just the same, and a potent gesture of submission.

5.) Some manual stimulation is good, but see to it that you coordinate the cock stroking with the cues of the stud. For example, when He’s thrusting, it’s best to keep your hands clear, lest you impede Him from going as deep as He wants. Manual stimulation of His balls is good at practically any stage, but be solicitous, in advance if possible, of His preferences in terms of intensity. Some studs don’t like their balls played with at all, or are indifferent to it.

Well, that seems like plenty for you to contemplate for now.

But before you go, listen to the audio below for a little further explanation of how you can use your hands in submissive cock sucking for Mistress and Her man.

And then stay tuned for part two, where I’ll discuss a controversial ingredient to this oral servitude by proxy, how to handle the “big finish”, and what to do afterwards.  *wink*

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Goddess Rachel, Cocksucker Coach

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