Hello, Cocksuckers! Most of My posts here have been geared toward the intermediate to expert cocksucker. I thought to Myself, whoa, there are probably a lot more out there who fantasize about sucking cock than have actually done so. Some of those are right at the tipping point between turning fantasy into reality.
This post, therefore, is a back-to basics topic. It’s geared toward those of you who may find that to watch straight porn clips and imagine yourself in the position of the woman just isn’t cutting it anymore. Or maybe it’s cutting it too well, and has stoked the flames of your cocklust so high, you feel that the real thing is definitely in your future.
There are prodigies out there, those of you who can go right from curious about sucking cock to providing porn-style head your first time, but those are rare. So I’m a firm believer in practicing. At least some basic skills.
For that, you’re going to need a practice dong.
But how to pick one?
Size Matters When Sucking Cock
Whether you’re practicing, or the curtain is going up on your first performance.
Here’s another fitting adage from the normie world: Dress for the job you want!
If you don’t care what size cock you end up sucking, but simply seek the tactile pleasure and responsiveness of giving head, or even if you’re one of the few who don’t idolize big dicks like your Mistress Rachel does, then a moderately-sized dildo is enough. Let’s say, 6″.
But if you’re a size queen, I suggest getting two dildos: a moderately-sized one, and one that as closely as possible resembles the cock of your dreams. The smaller one will allow you to concentrate on finer skills. When you’re proficient at those, you can move on to the bigger one.
Two Common Elements
Small or large, both choices in practice dildos should have two things in
This is the CyberSkin Dream Dick. I’ve even seen it in Caramel and Chocolate tones!
common:
- as realistic as possible
- a suction cup
Why realistic? Well, no matter how horny the idea of sucking cock makes you, coming face to face with the real thing can sometimes spark performance anxiety. There’s no real way to guarantee you won’t suffer from first time blowjob jitters, but there are ways to minimize the risk.
Most important, of course, will be the support, encouragement, training, and guidance of a Mistress like Me who is adept at teaching men to suck cock. But the more realistic your practice dildo, the more familiar the real thing will seem.
I also highly recommend a dildo with a suction cup. When you’re sucking cock, you may want to use your hands, but your goal should be versatility. With a nice strong suction cup, you’ll be able to practice switching between chasing your hand or hands up and down that cock with your mouth, giving that cock pure mouth and throat action, and all the little subtleties in between.
Sucking Cock on Cam
If you’d like to undergo cocksucker training with Me, a practice dong (or two, depending on your size preferences) is essential. At some point, I will want to actually see you put the lessons I impart into practice. I’ll be able to see where your form might need correction, offer suggestions, and troubleshoot difficulties you may be having.
I can still teach you to suck cock even if you’re too shy to be exposed on cam, but you and I will both be able to feel more confident about your skills if I can actually view your progress. Especially if you’ve fantasized about sucking cock for Mistress. W/e should have a dry run of just what it will sound like when you have My voice in your ear, and something throbbing and hard in your mouth.
Shopping Suggestions!
Many of you may have already visited the sex toys pages on My personal blog. I don’t have a separate page for cocksucker training, although I used to; it’s simple enough that I didn’t think it needed its own page. But that doesn’t mean I can’t help you find the perfect training dong for you!
This is the Colurs. THICK variety!
For the moderate-sized dong, I really like the Colours series. You can find those via My favorite purveyor for sex toys, Stockroom.com. The Colours Pleasures 5″ dildo is beautifully-molded, high-quality silicone, and has a nice strong suction cup. It also comes in either original girth, or thick.
Stockroom also used to carry My all-time favorite realistic “big dick”, the Cyberskin Dream Dick. You might see it under other names, but if you see it once, you’ll never mistake it.
Those are just the beginning! There are practice dongs out there so real, if you close your eyes you’ll forget that they’re attached to a mirror and not a real, live, strapping, horny man! Hairy balls, squirting, skin-like feel, you name it!
Want to have a cock shopping session? I’m happy to be your guide!
In short, aspiring cocksucker, your success is going to be 90% preparation, 10% “perspiration”. Get yourself a practice dong (or two), arrange for My cocksucker training, make sure you’re up on cock sucking safety, and the next thing you know, you’ll be calling to regale Me with your exhilarating experience of sucking cock for the first time!
Listen in below for a bit of cocksucking encouragement!
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If you don’t like the taste of your dildo put a little strawberry jam on it and suck away. And thank you Miss Rachel for helping me overcome some of my hang ups of sucking cocks
I’m glad I helped! And I’m sure cocksuckers will appreciate the tip! But, I’d be surprised to hear it if a high quality dong had any taste at all!
Ms Rachel, thank you for the wonderful blog and for the tips you gave me during our session!
I think it’s time to work with a larger practice dong and to get on cam for more of your evaluations!
I would love to evaluate your progress, wessypoo!
Of course, if W/e had a cam show, I’d want to see the other end get stretched, too! *giggle*
Mistress Rachel, this is Sissy Slut Samantha. As you know from the pictures I have provided, I have three suction-cup dildos, all of which are used for practice as well as pleasure.
The brown one is 7” long and about an inch in diameter. This one goes down my throat to get things warmed up. I practice with it as often as possible. After a few strokes with it stuck to the mirror, I like to push it in all the way to the balls freestyle and then leave it there as long as possible just soaking in my sissy dreams.
The second dildo is white and a bit longer and thicker. After practice with the first, I move to this one, which stretches me out. Very few cocks I have sucked are bigger than this dildo, so I feel well prepared after practicing with it. This dong also is the first one into my asspussy. It stretches my asscunt a little but just getting ready for the real practice.
The last of the three dildos is an 9” that is really thick, much thicker than the second. After practicing with the second, I can work the third in pretty easily, but it does really stretch my pussy. I love practicing with this dick. Because it is very flexible, I have to work to keep it aimed straight into my hole, but it really feels good to pound that big one in balls deep. When you make me fuck myself with it on a fast tempo, it drives me deep into subspace.
Those are my practice dildos. Obviously, I love practice. But still, the real thing is the best, especially when you are talking about getting fucked. The energy of a horny alpha male thrusting with all his power and weight cannot be captured with a dildo. Oh my, I am getting myself worked up.
Hello, Samantha!
Did you leave this comment before or after you purchased the massive dong from, was it, Hankey’s?
Either way, I know that W/e’ve been talking about getting you an even BIGGER one, haven’t W/e?
You are truly a bottomless pit at both ends, and with the real thing, it wouldn’t be any different! W/e both know that!
But I do know you love your dildos! And I love driving you to use them!